So I turned 19 yesterday. It wasnt exactly an exceptionally fun birthday. For one, I had to work (internship) and two, my sister had to work overtime and dad wasnt feeling well to leave the house. Third, three so-called friends have the cheek to not even wish me a simple happy birthday.
This further helps to reinforce my thinking that no friendship ever last forever. Like seriously. No matter how close you are with friends right now, once you go on your separate ways, things will never be the same again. Especially if no one is trying hard enough to sustain the friendship.
So cherish what you have now and no point harping on what is not yours.
6th years of friendship, two of the three did not say anything. It’s either they were probably too busy that it was the 8th yesterday, or simply forgotten about the birthday. The last person left a birthday message on my blog tagboard. See what I mean? As the years pass, the roots of friendship do not grow deep at all, in fact, it becomes thinner and thinner, unless it blends with the wind.
She can argue that she lost her handphone and didnt have my number, but a simple act like asking old friends for my number or me appearing online most of the day, overrules that argument already.
Whereas for the other girl, I really want to know what she was thinking on the 8th, to think she is the one who have been keeping in contact with me all the while. We meet up to watch movies occasionally, wow, unbelievable, and her birthday wasnt that long ago either.
Call me petty or sensitive, but hey, I’m not wrong, am I? Is asking for a simple birthday greeting that difficult? It’s not like I’m asking for a Coach bag or a 3-days 2-nights resort getaway.
